Rules for Successful Co-Parenting After Separation From Bell & Co.

Bell & Co. believe that it is important that the needs of the child are placed at the forefront of considerations during the process of separation. Issues between separating partners need to be set aside when agreeing and acting on care arrangements. This is reinforced by section 4 of the Care of Children Act 2004, which details that the welfare and best interests of the child are paramount.

From a family lawyer’s perspective, it is essential that care arrangements are made that prioritise the child, no matter what the personal circumstances that arise between the parents. Successful co-parenting post separation revolves around communication, clarity and – above all – putting the best interests of your child first.

Care arrangements can be made informally between parties. This better preserves relationships and ensures that the transition is more comfortable for children involved. From a family law perspective, it is encouraged to have these arrangements in writing so that what is agreed upon is carried out.

The Ministry of Justice, and organisations like Family Works Resolution Service have programmes that provide advice and strategies to work through separation and its effects on children. Having continued support after separation is likely to help with co-parenting. Further, seeking personal help to work through issues caused by separation is likely to help you separate parenting from personal feelings towards your past partner.

The Family Works Resolution Service is offering a new tool called OurFamilyWizard free to families who complete their family mediation programme. This app aims to take the stress out of communicating and planning between separated parents. It is a platform that helps to clearly detail family plans while smoothing contact.

Successful co-parenting is dependent on whether the child’s needs are met by the arrangements in place. By working to split co-parenting arrangements from emotions that are involved with separation, co-parenting post separation is likely to be more successful. For more guidance and support on successful co-parenting, contact your family lawyers at Bell & Co on 04 499 4014, and for more information on law firms Wellington, divorce lawyers Wellington, personal grievance lawyers and family lawyers Wellington please go to http://www.bellandco.co.